Hello! I successfully completed another trip around the sun this past week and I’m experiencing the usual melange of emotions about it: gratitude, uncertainty, pride, fear, self-consciousness, anxiety, contentment, and joy. But overall, I feel okay. I’ve been noticing more and more grey hairs lately and I welcome them as tiny badges of honor.
In other news, spring is in full swing and it’s all happening: work, friend hangs, running, house projects, various political panic, and as much time as possible spent outdoors. And, of course, I’ve been finding delight in books and music and movies.
Read this week
Beautyland was one of my very favorite novels last year,1 so when I found out that Marie-Helene Bertino was releasing a collection of short stories, I requested an early copy with lightning speed.2 And as it turns out, Exit Zero is everything I hoped and more: weird, heartfelt, eclectic, sad, funny, and did I mention weird?! This collection has everything:
Someone who gets trapped inside a rerun of Cheers
A diamond dust portrait of Cher
Ex-lovers falling from the sky like rain
Lightly interconnected vignettes that somehow made me cry??
This quote: “I am going there tonight with a handwritten letter and a heart that churns as wildly as the blood-black sea.” Marie! Helene! Stop it!
Balloons bearing messages from an unknown entity
Haunted peaches
Not to mention Bertino’s prose, which is beautiful, tender, and just odd enough to avoid saccharinity.
Some scientists believe if you place a virus into a petri dish of water then remove it, the water retains memory of the virus. This would mean that molecules can communicate with each other without being in physical contact. Other scientists contest this, consider the water memory scientists to be naive dreamers. Last night, I sat under the stars holding your ratty sweater against my cheek.
This was my third book of hers and it has officially cemented her place on my list of auto-read authors going forward. I will also be filling in my backlist gaps (Safe as Houses and Parakeet) as soon as humanly possible.
Exit Zero comes out tomorrow, April 22, from FSG Originals (paperback lovers rejoice!) and I absolutely recommend it.
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Seen and heard this week
Speaking of heartwarming and poignant: for my birthday on Tuesday, I met some of my best friends for pizza and then we saw The Ballad of Wallis Island (2025) at our local indie. I loved this movie SO MUCH. It’s about Charles, superfan of a folk duo that broke up years ago, who wins the lottery and uses his earnings to hire both musicians, unbeknownst to each other, for a private concert on the tiny remote Welsh island where he lives. There’s deep yearning, there’s gentle acoustic music with gorgeous vocal harmony, there’s the sister from Fleabag (unrecognizable at first because she’s smiling), there’s rain on a pebble beach, there’s the bittersweet resolve to finally move forward. And there are puns! Charles is one of my favorite characters in recent memory—pure-hearted, delightfully silly, completely oblivious to social cues. I fell hard for him and for the film as a whole, and I’m already looking forward to watching it again. Please go see it if it’s showing where you are so we can discuss.
The story of New York Ninja (2021) is completely wild. It was originally shot in 1984, but the project was abandoned when the original distribution company went bankrupt and the movie was never released. A few decades later, a new studio acquired the reels, which had no sound and no accompanying script or storyboard, and a new director reconstructed the whole thing using new actors to dub over the existing footage. The result is something of a Bad Lip Reading situation: uncanny, occasionally nonsensical, and fully ridiculous. If you love a bad movie and haven’t seen this one yet, get thee to a B-squad streaming service3 posthaste.
Last night we were looking around on Netflix for something to watch with dinner and noticed that The Peanut Butter Falcon (2019) was leaving the platform soon, so that’s what we chose. It had been on my radar since it came out, but I had no clue what it was actually about and was therefore completely surprised and delighted by the experience. First of all, it’s set in North Carolina! On the outer banks, a place that I know and love. And jeez, what a sweet story: Zak, a young man with Down syndrome, escapes his nursing home hoping to become a professional wrestler, and by chance meets Tyler, a fellow runaway fleeing the mistakes of his past. The two become friends and their journey takes them places neither of them expected at the start.
Musically, I currently find myself in a nostalgic pop-punk moment. It all started when a friend shared this video clip of Green Day singing “I’m not a part of the MAGA agenda” at Coachella, and those four seconds reminded me how much I love “American Idiot,” and then before I knew it I was blasting the whole American Idiot (2004) album while I drew the water for my evening bath. Let me just say, the first few tracks are so incredibly solid: “American Idiot,” “Jesus of Suburbia,” “Holiday,” and “Boulevard of Broken Dreams.” What a lineup.
I stumbled on Isn’t This Supposed to be Fun? (2007) by Farewell while scrolling through my saved albums on Spotify trying to find something suitable for a morning run. This is a bit of a deep cut—Farewell was a Greensboro band that I got into through the local scene during late high school and early college. If memory serves, my friends and I befriended a guy who photographed shows in the area and he turned us on to them. My entry points to their music were “Kelley Green” and “Manila” from the Poisoning the Lark EP. Buckle up your studded belt and dig your black hair dye out of the bathroom closet for this one:
Isn’t This Supposed to be Fun? is a bit more accessible and pop-leaning than the earlier stuff, a good bet if you like bands like The Starting Line, The Early November, Something Corporate, etc. There are no skips for me, but my favorite song might be “Zelda,” because toward the end of it they play with rhythm in a way that makes my inner music dork very happy.
And another thing
The Millions’ spring book preview is finally here! I’ve been eagerly awaiting this list and as expected, I found several new-to-me titles to drool over. Just to name a few releasing in April: When the Wolf Comes Home (whose title is a lyric from one of my favorite Mountain Goats songs!!), Searches: Selfhood in the Digital Age, and I Ate the Whole World to Find You.
This story, about a man who has listened to The Great Gatsby hundreds of times since 2020, is fascinating.
On the recommendation of a friend (hi Emily!), I listened to this episode of Ologies podcast during my run this morning and immediately added Adam Met’s upcoming book, Amplify: How to Use the Power of Connection to Engage, Take Action, and Build a Better World, to my list (it comes out in June). Ayana Elizabeth Johnson’s What if We Get it Right? moved back up in priority, too.
I went to the art museum book club discussion of Godwin that I mentioned last week, and it was really fun! I was too nervous to contribute much of anything, but I enjoyed listening and I do feel like it increased my appreciation and understanding of the book. If you’ve been thinking about going to a bookish event where you live, consider this your nudge to do it!
Haiku round-up
And now for this week’s crop of short poetry:
Monday, April 14
The darkness whispers of doubt, wasted potential, love I don’t deserve
Tuesday, April 15
And yet, this heart seeks no compensation for its continued beating
Wednesday, April 16
Buffet of free books, a quiet desk with a view This place is magic
Thursday, April 17
Deep breaths, slow exhales reassure my trembling core: there is no danger
Friday, April 18
The urge to upend everything about a room New layout, new life
Saturday, April 19
It’s been a good night when I leave with a slight wheeze from laughing too hard
Sunday, April 20
First ones on the lawn— a wide expanse of fresh green laid out just for us
Until next time
The kiddos we were picnicking with on Sunday found a small toad hopping around under a canopy of magnolia trees and we excitedly (yet gently, quietly) got as close as we could to observe and photograph and wonder. I don’t know about my young compatriots, but as we gazed at this little guy I was thinking about freedom from second-guessing. Life is hopping, hiding, blending in, answering hunger with food and thirst with water, seeking shelter and rest under a leaf’s camouflaging expanse. There’s no fear of doing it wrong, no jealousy of other toads, no dissatisfaction with physical appearance or lack of measurable success. I want to be a little toad. Let’s try to be little toads this week.
See you next Monday, and until then, please enjoy a glimpse into my future.
—Emily
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The only reason you didn’t hear me yell about it here is that I read it (twice!) before I started writing this newsletter. But please accept my heartiest after-the-fact recommendation: 🗣️ READ BEAUTYLAND. (It’s not just me.
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I'm just now seeing the shout out in this newsletter. Thank you!! And yes I really, really do think everyone should read Beautyland. I can't wait to read Exit Zero!